How to Start a Book Club with Friends (That Actually Lasts)
A simple, guide to launching a book club—from picking your crew and choosing books to building fun traditions. Perfect for readers, bookworms, and book club hosts.

There’s nothing better than sharing your love of books with friends. A book club gives you a reason to hang out, read more often, and discover stories you might have missed. If you’ve been wondering how to start a book club with friends, this friendly guide breaks it down into simple steps—plus a few ideas that make every meetup feel special.
1) Gather your people
Start small. A group of 4–8 friends works best—enough for great discussion, not so many that scheduling is chaos. Mix reading tastes so you’ll discover new genres together.
2) Pick a theme or style
Decide what kind of club you want. All fiction? Nonfiction only? Mysteries, fantasy epics, or “anything goes”? A light theme helps set expectations and speeds up book selection.

Set the vibe—cozy reads, comfy tees, good friends.
3) Set a regular schedule
Consistency is everything. Decide if you’ll meet monthly, every six weeks, or quarterly. Add a shared calendar invite so everyone stays on track without group-chat chaos.
4) Choose a meeting spot
Think cozy and convenient: someone’s living room, a favorite coffee shop, a public library room, or Zoom for remote friends. Rotate hosts to keep things fresh.
5) Make book picks easy
- Rotate who chooses each month
- Vote on a shortlist in your group chat
- Create a simple year-long reading plan
Keep it fair and low-friction so the focus stays on reading, not deciding.
6) Keep it fun
A book club shouldn’t feel like homework. Add snacks, themed drinks, or a quick icebreaker (“share a favorite quote”). Small bookish gifts like bookmarks or candles are great touches too.
7) Build traditions
The best clubs last because they feel special. Try a shared reading journal, a “quote of the night,” or matching apparel. Many groups love wearing book lover shirts or bookworm t-shirts—it’s a fun way to show your reader pride and makes for great photos.
Make your club look as good as it feels
From funny literary t-shirts to reading shirts and book themed shirts, we’ve got cozy styles perfect for your next meetup. They’re thoughtful presents for book lovers and easy gifts for readers in your life.
FAQs: Starting a Book Club with Friends
- How many people should be in a book club?
- Most groups thrive with 4–8 members—big enough for varied opinions, small enough for easy scheduling.
- How often should we meet?
- Monthly or every six weeks is a sweet spot. Give everyone time to read without losing momentum.
- How do we choose books fairly?
- Rotate the picker, vote on a shortlist, or build a simple annual list together.
- What makes a book club last?
- Consistency, a clear vibe, and a few fun traditions—like matching book lover tees—go a long way.